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Wed, Sep. 3rd, 2008 07:18 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
annarti
Things I need to get off my chest, because they've been irritating me for quite a while now.
Last Saturday, I think it was? I had my mini-party-going-out-thing with K8 and Anna P as a belated birthday thing. Girls' night out to have fun, talk goss and all that sort of stuff.
Except it wasn't, because K8 for some unexplained reason brought her boyfriend along. I don't know why! I don't give a shit why! It irritated the living CRAP out of me! It was supposed to be MY birthday dinner, with just MY friends.
Then about ten minutes in K8 asked why I hadn't invited Alex up as well. Just... UGH. I came so close to exploding on the spot. Dan was NOT invited, even less expected, because it was supposed to be a GIRLS' NIGHT OUT. If she'd at least asked if he was allowed to tag along, then I may well have said yes and I would have invited Alex. But no, just rocks up at the pub, boyfriend in tow. It was just rude ><
I love the girl, really, but sometimes it'd be really nice if she'd take other people's feelings into consideration. I've told her things that I thought would have been implicitly in confidence, namely failing subjects at uni a few years back, and she told her parents within the hour. I hadn't even told MINE yet.
I can't remember the last time we had a night with just the three of us. It's either been me and Anna P because K8's been doing something with Dan, or Dan ends up coming along with us. Good on her for having a boyfriend, but really, does he have to come everywhere? Including a friend's birthday of three people, to which he wasn't invited in the first place?
I foresee backlash for this, and I don't give a crap. It's been nagging me for too long not to say anything.
Last Saturday, I think it was? I had my mini-party-going-out-thing with K8 and Anna P as a belated birthday thing. Girls' night out to have fun, talk goss and all that sort of stuff.
Except it wasn't, because K8 for some unexplained reason brought her boyfriend along. I don't know why! I don't give a shit why! It irritated the living CRAP out of me! It was supposed to be MY birthday dinner, with just MY friends.
Then about ten minutes in K8 asked why I hadn't invited Alex up as well. Just... UGH. I came so close to exploding on the spot. Dan was NOT invited, even less expected, because it was supposed to be a GIRLS' NIGHT OUT. If she'd at least asked if he was allowed to tag along, then I may well have said yes and I would have invited Alex. But no, just rocks up at the pub, boyfriend in tow. It was just rude ><
I love the girl, really, but sometimes it'd be really nice if she'd take other people's feelings into consideration. I've told her things that I thought would have been implicitly in confidence, namely failing subjects at uni a few years back, and she told her parents within the hour. I hadn't even told MINE yet.
I can't remember the last time we had a night with just the three of us. It's either been me and Anna P because K8's been doing something with Dan, or Dan ends up coming along with us. Good on her for having a boyfriend, but really, does he have to come everywhere? Including a friend's birthday of three people, to which he wasn't invited in the first place?
I foresee backlash for this, and I don't give a crap. It's been nagging me for too long not to say anything.